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Parents at Goat Rock

Parents at Goat Rock

Goat Rock Beach from afar.

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Walkers II

Walkers II

Bodega Bay as the sun goes down.

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Walkers

Walkers

A seaside stroll.

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Thankful for this.

Thankful for this.

There were some tears as we went round the table saying what we were thankful for.

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Thankful

This year, my mother's life was saved by a double lung transplant. I still have flashbacks to the day she was called, and to the moment when she was pushed through the double doors, wide-eyed, and I didn't know if I was ever going to see her again. Almost nine months later, she's upstairs, taking some medication. It's been a tough road, mostly for her but also for all of us, and I'm thankful that she's here.

I'm thankful that my aunt, who had two separate single lung transplants a little before my mother, is also with us.

And, oh boy, am I thankful for all the wonderful surgeons, nurses, doctors and medical professionals who helped those things be true.

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I'm thankful for my family, for their support, and for the fact that we're close. There are people who don't get along with their families, who dread every familial get-together for the arguments, weirdness or stoicism. I'm grateful that I'm not one of them, and am so proud of both my nuclear and extended families. My dad in particular has been a superhero this year. And apropos of nothing, here's the song my sister wrote for my mother a few years ago, when her illness began to really take its toll. I'm grateful we're all in the same place, more or less.

I'm thankful for the support I've had from a raft of people who have understood when I've had to take time out or change plans to help my parents. I'm also thankful for all the people who have understood that this has, in some ways, been the hardest year of my life, and gone out of their way to help me out and be there for me.

I'm continually thankful for everyone who has taken an interest in my work, been a friend to me, and been a part of my life this year. I've met some wonderful people and cemented relationships with people I'm glad to know. And while 2013 has been tough, with all this support and all these wonderful people in my life, I don't see how 2014 can't be an amazing year.

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Professional movers.

Professional movers.

Let's figure out a strategy ...

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The past is the future is the present, part II

The past is the future is the present, part II

And finally, , in a crowd at some kind of music event in the park, year again unknown.

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Putting a smile on it

Putting a smile on it

Playing it cool a couple of weeks post-op, 2013.

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Rainy New Year's Day

Rainy New Year's Day

My genes in context, 2006.

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Ma, summer 2005

Ma, summer 2005

I've never seen someone look so happy to be building an outdoor shower.

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Ma, Boston Common, 2004

Ma, Boston Common, 2004

Somewhere in the background: swan boats. And the Make Way for Ducklings sculpture (which I religiously visit whenever I'm in town).

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1. Maybe I should start a podcast. 2. I miss #tummelvision. #xoxofest

1. Maybe I should start a podcast. 2. I miss #tummelvision. #xoxofest

Podcasts really are awesome. I bought a pro mic a while back ... maybe it's time?

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Two sisters, three lung transplants, a walk.

Two sisters, three lung transplants, a walk.

Just two sisters going for a walk.

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The journey continues

The journey continues

More from this weekend.

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First meal from the Santa Rosa house

First meal from the Santa Rosa house

This photo marks a seriously major milestone: the first time any of us had tried Bumbleberry Blossoms. Also, it was the first meal round the table in the Santa Rosa house.

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